What Happens Immediately After Death?

I get that question frequently. Some people simply fear the unknown, while others aren’t afraid at all, but interested. Death is an experience that even I don’t completely understand, but I can answer this question, based strictly on what I’ve been told and shown from souls that have already made their journey home. The first thing most of these souls seem to realize after death is that their bodily suffering has finally come to an end. When I do a reading with a passed loved one, they often give me vivid descriptions of the way they passed and their feelings at the time, they sometimes give details of the bodily conditions they suffered at the end. They always explain that the suffering ends the moment they begin their journey home. I, as a medium, can often sense these pains in my own body while doing a reading, although not to the same degree that the person experienced. Considering the thousands of spirit messages I have given in my time, I have died (felt) thousands of deaths. The worst one I remember was when the spirit person inundated me with the sensation of his head as he was shot! This was excellent validation for the client, but left me out of sorts for days. As one enters into the afterlife they have a feeling of excitement as the spirit initially leaves the body. Suddenly, all pain and discomfort is gone! This transformation is immediate and complete. Also, many spirits have told me that the suffering we see when they are close to death is not as horrifying as it may...

HARD TO WRITE-My own heartbreak story, Tragedy Turns To Psychic-For Pap

I’m writing this blog & publishing it today because today is the day I began realizing I had paranormal abilities. Today is the day I started my journey of helping others in pain.  It all started with my pap whom I called Pap Donley (his last name).  I’m not sure I could ever put into words what this man meant to me or how close our bond was. It was the early 90s & I was only in my young 20s, I had a serious boyfriend but no husband or kids yet. My Pap was my world. I’d often spend nights with him & Grandma. He & I would joke as he’d make fun of things like how fast I drove when I took him to the Club (VFW) & to get a haircut or he’d fib about getting answers right as we watched Jeopardy together.  I loved just being with him, but my Pap was very sick for his young age. He had numerous illnesses including Alzheimer’s & eventually ended up in a nursing home. I went every single day to see him, sometimes twice a day. He sometimes was completely out of it but often he did recognize me.  He sometimes spoke as if his kids were little again or thought the nurses were “out to get him”. He had emphysema & needed daily breathing mask treatments but usually refused the nurses & so I did it when I arrived, I held that mask there for what seemed an eternity, staring into his eyes with so much love & admiration, I just knew he could feel it. ...

Are You On The Right Path? Stress, Worry, Regret-Why God, Why?

Every decision you’ve made in your life has brought you to this precise moment in time. Some things that happen in life can be attributed to fate, others are meant to happen. But, you have free will, we all do, and the choice at that moment is to determine what you do, and how to respond when the event happens. As a spiritual living soul, you’re an accumulation of all your experiences that are happening now, as well as those that happened in the past. It’s the choices that you make as a result of these experiences, that determines the quality of how you’re going to live your life. There are many different roads that you may decide to take on your soul’s journey. When you are born here in the physical world, your soul’s predestined journey will take you through life. It’s your choice and your free will which route you want to take and how fast you want to get where you are ultimately supposed to end up. You may take the fast route, going directly along your path or you may (as with most of us) meander through different side roads, experiencing all that life has to offer, as you take your time in getting to your soul’s ultimate destination. Sometimes it’s good to let go of the river’s edge and let the flow of life take you to where you’re supposed to be. It can be quite liberating when you do let go. Suddenly, opportunities and choices become exciting, and surprisingly, you still feel safe by letting go of the outcome. Of course, there are...

Need A Holiday Miracle? Here You Go!

I’m hearing from so many people right now that are down in the dumps, some are upset about the recent election, some are missing loved ones past, others are having financial problems, many are having family issues and still many more are just suffering depression. All telling me the same thing over and over again “I NEED A MIRACLE IN MY LIFE!”.   That miracle you seek could be health, prosperity, balance in the family, or peace in the heart, in your home, in our country, or even in the world. I truly wish that I could lend my psychic abilities to you, so you too could see how all of your miracles are right before your eyes, just waiting for you to see them. You’d be amazed at the wonders trying to reach you! I’ve decided to show you, through my psychic eyes how to bring all of your miracles through. How To See Your Own Miracles: I am extremely familiar with the spiritual make-up of want vs need. I know that our own thoughts are the most powerful miracle makers we have. I have observed time and time again that our miracles are attempting to get to us yet we don’t provide them with a doorway. Why? Because we’re tired, we’re cranky, jaded, and over all, we don’t logically believe that there is such thing as a “miracle” in this world anymore.  I’m here to tell you, THAT IS NOT TRUE! Yet we will it so with our minds and negativity. While often seeing other dimensions, I have learned (and still struggle with this notion myself) that if...

TRUMP/CLINTON, PSYCHIC MEDIUM ELECTION VIEWS: WHAT’S TRUE AND WHAT’S NOT? MEDIA & RIGGED ELECTION? HILLARY’S EMAILS & VIEWS ON ABORTION? TRUMP’S SEXUAL ACCUSATIONS & MORE

I have decided to write this blog with great hesitation.  You may have seen some of my recent posts on social media and the backlash I received from them….love me or hate me, at least I’m honest and open with my opinions.  I feel that as a psychic who also connects with passed loved ones, spirit guides, and even angels, that I have a right; no a RESPONSIBILITY, to educate and inform based on my inside knowledge and prospective.  I am not saying that the views I am about to express are always right, I’m not God and while I have faith in my intuition & my guides, I sometimes get it wrong.  I’m still human!  I do; however, feel the need to clear some things up….. This election has been a joke.  I’m not just stating that as an opinion, it’s a fact.  I have fans from all over the world and many have told me that other countries are viewing America as a complete joke right now because of the election and the way we are behaving as a country.  I do NOT love or completely support either candidate.  I have seen some glimpses  into our future that show me we are in trouble regardless which of these individuals become president. I’m not trying to create fear or panic, but neither is my ideal choice.   I do not have faith that either one has the true compassion, honestly, integrity, motives, and belief system to be our Commander In Chief…so what’s a person to do?  We could choose not to vote at all, which accomplishes absolutely nothing. ...

Autumn/Fall Affects The Spirit

HOW FALL AFFECTS YOUR SPIRITUAL SIDE-THE HARVEST OF THE SPIRIT Outside my window, an amazingly beautiful change has begun. As it happens every fall, the leaves turn as gold as the sun, burnt orange, and bright red, the wind begins to blow them off the trees & the cooler temperatures start moving in. It’s beautiful to watch, and I enjoy seeing the transition with it’s almost mystical feel.  I love Autumn breezes and grey/foggy evenings.  Along with the Fall comes Halloween, then Thanksgiving, and just around the corner is Christmas.  I have found that while some of us absolutely love Autumn & the changes it represents, many people suffer this time of year.  The depression seems to ooze in with those cooler temps and shorter days.  Many are suffering sadness over lost loved ones, some are just missing their own past & not excited about or looking forward to their future….so why does Autumn seem to bring gloom for some of us?  Why is it that as the leaves fall off the trees, our tears seem to shed from our eyes, almost like another Fall ritual?   There are many scientific explanations, many doctors can tell you about Seasonal Affective Disorder and how having less sunshine affects your overall mood.  We’ve all heard of cabin fever, which we know is right around the corner in the cold Winter months, but what about from a  spiritual perspective?  I believe that our subconscious misses passed loved ones the most in the Fall & Winter.  I also think we begin realizing how much of our own lives has passed, rekindling our memories in a...

What’s the #1 Cause of Death In My Readings? You May Be Shocked!

Do you know the #1 killer amongst all the readings I’ve done? You may be shocked!I spend my life talking to the dead- it’s not just a job for me, it’s a way of life. I help people find answers & peace. The #1 cause of death in all the readings I’ve done is a very bad illness, an epidemic with a cure, but not nearly enough funding, so people are dying from it. Almost a million people a year die in some way because of it….it affects entire families & all ages. It has no “typical” or “most likely” candidates. It affects all ages, genders, economic classes, & is not more prevalent in one race verses another, yet “we” aren’t doing anything to stop it. Have you figured it out yet? It’s addiction & it’s an epidemic. No one is immune. Addiction has nothing to do with how a person was raised, some of the best parents in the world raise an addict.  Drug and alcohol abuse is at an all time high in every corner of every county. Time & again I do readings with families who’ve lost a loved one due to addiction. Sometimes it’s alcohol, other times heroin, over doses are sky rocketing! Why are we as a country allowing the media & our government to focus on politics & race wars when we all have such a serious pandemic affecting us? Why does a disease that actually HAS a cure still exist to the point of causing a million deaths per year (directly or indirectly)? Please know the warning signs of drug & alcohol...

How I Talk To The Dead-Shelly Frey Psychic Medium

Most of you already know that I use energy to connect to other dimensions, but what does that really mean? After doing most readings, after specific validations & proof comes through that turns skeptics into believers, the first question I often get goes something like this “How is this even possible?” Or “How does this work/How do you do that?” Etc & while there’s no exact or quick answer to those questions, I thought I’d try to explain as best I can for you.First, you have to know there ARE actually other dimensions out there, and life after death (the soul lives on) is very real, there’s been so much proof not only from mediums like myself but in photos & voice recordings, in scientific journals, etc that even our government & many scientists believe now, so why can some of us communicate with these other dimensions & how do we do it. Why can I approach a total stranger & tell them specific details about their life, while my husband says that he would have never even been able to guess those things about a complete stranger, let alone know for sure. There are many theories as to the “why” this works for certain people…genetics, hereditary traits, personality, near death experience etc but no one,not even those of us that can do it can explain why we can & the next person can’t. What I can attempt to explain, without going too much into my own personal journey on this path is the “how”. I use energy. Imagine if you were about to go run a marathon, or...

4 Things You Need to Know about “Moving On”

We all deal with loss.  Some are letting go after a divorce, some have lost a loved one, etc…  Everyone tells you to move on or that you “should have” moved on by now after you lose a loved one or have a traumatic change in your life, but what does that really mean? How will your life look after doing it & how do you move on? Does anyone really ever “move on”? Sadly, there’s no one specific answer to any of those questions. But, there are things that can be helpful to know about “moving on” after your life as you know it has been changed forever. In fact, these things can help with moving on after any traumatic life event that changes your world (losing a loved one, divorce, being a victim of a crime, losing your home, etc) 1. Other people are NOT the ones that determine how your “moving on” happens! You are not responsible for their feelings! Usually, it feels like those who care about us expect us to literally snap our fingers & be “over it” and what they mean by “moving on” is for us to stop hurting, for the pain to instantly go away, to get over it…stop talking about it, stop reminiscing, stop crying, and just stop grieving all together. They talk about wishing we would stop dwelling on the event and our pain. They encourage us to just let go and accept what happened. They do care, but if they are honest with us & themselves, what they really yearn for is for us to stop making them...

Is that Yard Sale Item Or Another Item You Own Haunted?

It’s Yard Sale, Auction & Flea Market Season, so I thought this blog appropriate. How To Tell If that old gorgeous clock (Or any Item already in your home) Is Haunted When I was a kid, I often loved going to yard sales with my parents. I continued that tradition with my husband & kids & while I don’t have as much time now, I still enjoy the occasional stroll through a neighborhood yard sale. With my ability, there are always strange things going on around me, a toaster oven throwing a flame, cell phones freezing up, lights blinking, items being moved….but what about everyone else? Is it possible to never have anything paranormal happen in your life & then suddenly one day, you purchase a lovely hand made comforter or a vase that isn’t even antique & boom….suddenly your home turns into the Amityville house? Not likely! It’s very rare to buy a used mirror then suddenly your entire life turns upside down, but it is possible & it’s even more possible to purchase something that has been used & suddenly notice some paranormal activity. Things could happen like placing the object in one room & it mysteriously moves itself to other rooms in the house, when you aren’t around to see it. This may be hard to believe but yes, it does happen. Most of the paranormal activity may be (or at least start) in a more subtle way…some bad luck starts embracing your family or you suddenly have to replace batteries & lightbulbs more frequently. I get tons of qrequest to come cleanse items & offer...
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