I do so many readings with people who have lived for years with guilt after making this decision, regardless of how long they waited or what their final decision was. In light of what is going on with Ms. Rivers, I thought I would share my thoughts on this from a psychic perspective.
I believe (based on what spirit has told me during readings) there is no wrong answer here. The loved ones often feel one way during their life on this topic and will express it. For example, in the case of Joan Rivers, I psychically feel that she does not want to continue on life support and has probably in the past expressed to her family to discontinue life support in this type of a situation; however, most of the time, after a spirit has passed, they come through during a reading and tell me that as they were on the life support, they were already visiting Heaven…they were already beginning their process of visiting the other side, going through the process of crossing over & while sometimes were aware of what was going on around them in the hospital room, they were already finding their peace. They really wouldn’t have minded if their family needed more time with them and didn’t follow through with their wishes to immediately remove the life support, BUT, they also tell me that if they had previous told their family they wanted to remain on life support and once they were in that situation, the family had chosen to remove the life support, they were not upset at all and were still at peace & happy that the family didn’t suffer by having the burden of watching them in that state (on life support at the hospital). What I’m saying is basically this, once your loved one is passed, most of the time, they are not upset either way in regards to the life support debate regardless of what their wishes were in life & regardless if those wishes had been fulfilled, their only concern is that the family did what was best for themselves at the time so that they would find their peace the easiest and fastest way.
I’m not saying that I expect this will make that decision or the process for Joan, Melissa, or any family that has dealt or will deal with this situation any easier….this is never an easy choice, but I’m explaining that from what I have learned during my readings, your loved ones are at peace and not upset with the decision at all, regardless of the outcome.
In closing, I do feel that Joan Rivers will be leaving our world in the VERY near future and it’s a sad day for us, we have certainly been blessed to have had her here for so long making us smile and laugh, which is what she loved to do, but she will be going to Heaven & I’m sure, she’ll be telling her jokes there too! All my love & best wishes to her family!