Why do people drive hours to do a reading? How do these people know this is REALLY their loved one? What makes you different than other psychics and mediums? Many people don't realize that I travel to hotels doing one on one private readings or that people often schedule me to come to their area. Often those coming to meet me will drive hours & really need that closure & peace, some just need to know their loved ones are ok & with them in spirit, but others have unanswered questions. Why are they willing to drive so far and how do they know it's real? How do they know I'm not researching them in advance or "cold reading" (a term used often by skeptics). You may have seen on my website there are numerous testimonials (both written and video interviews) from people who have done readings with me, all are genuinely shocked, many in tears and almost all finding peace they have been trying to find for years. I'm going to give you some examples of what messages often come through but just as important, I'll then explain how or why they know these messages are proven to be real. Here are just a few examples of life changing messages that came through during readings recently (after, I'll explain more about the proof part): -a mom told her daughter she had not committed suicide 20 years earlier & even called out her killer by name, a name that happened to be the step father the family had suspected all along, -a teen daughter explains that while she had not killed herself & her friend hadn't pushed her in front of a car, the friend hadn't tried to help her either, -a father apologizes for abandoning his son & explains the new family didn't want him to stay in touch all those years, but he regrets not standing up to them, -a sister tells her older sister not to feel bad for the argument & time they spent not speaking &all is forgiven, -a boyfriend thanks his fiancé for the tattoo of the rose with the teardrops. Also, along with these type messages spirit also gives specific details to prove it's really them, these details are almost always so specific they couldn't possibly be researched or known by anyone else, this is called validating. These messages alone often contain validation; like the tattoo with teardrops that have specific initials in the teardrop or the sister who was burdened with guilt, remember, I know nothing about her-even if I were to research as skeptics often claim, I doubt the obituary says the sisters hadn't been speaking. A guess maybe? Perhaps, but for all I knew they were extremely close, quite a risky guess but it's not just that comment about the guilt that convinces the lady that this REALLY IS HER SISTER. I feel my "specialty" is validation, that is using the process of conserving spirit energy for their messages while also getting very accurate & specific details to validate & prove it's really them at the very beginning of the reading. Spirit will often tell me things such as nicknames, specific dates, code words, where something is hidden, etc and while it doesn't always work smoothly or quickly, eventually the validation usually comes. I'm very patient. I never rush them or time my readings. I first validate who they are by extensively having them show me things in my life (for example people in my family so I'll say names), signs, symbols, etc so that without wasting all of their energy validating (or we'd have none left to connect for their important messages i mentioned earlier). It's a pretty hard balancing act for me & for them. I often describe it as putting together a puzzle that starts as general & vague clues that get much more detailed & specific as we go until eventually we have undeniable overwhelming evidence as to their identity. People often ask, "Why don't they just come through & tell you their name or connection to me?"; my simple answer -Many do & I don't know why they all can't but I believe it has to do with the energy of the person doing the reading, negativity in the room, my energy, their energy, the strength of our connection. I have noticed many times they validate well but it takes a lot of energy then while giving their message, they give me their name and I think, "why didn't they just do that to begin with" but I lose them soon after so I think it takes a lot of energy quickly when they start "normal" conversation. Often times, after providing details during the beginning validation such as specific dates or nicknames, and even more validations during their messages, like things that happened during their final days or as they were passing (such as thank you for telling me it was ok to go, or I waited until you left the room to pass), they will show me something or tell me something during the final minutes as I'm losing them that is more shocking validation than all the rest combined....the person doing the reading and I never know what's coming out next, it's remarkable to me the little things that they will get me to say, often things that I almost don't say because they seem so trivial, that is the one thing that convinces them without a doubt that this entire experience is real, for example as I was losing connection with a Father during a recent reading (he had validated well throughout and I feel the lady knew without a doubt it was her Dad already), but as if to say, in case there is any doubt left in your mind, he was saying his "I love you & I'm always with you" he turned to leave (that's the image I get in my mind as I'm losing connection, he turned back around and suddenly showed me his teeth, they had turned blue, bright blue, it was the strangest thing and I had never seen this before, spirit isn't even in physical form, they are energy, but often show me images of things, so I'll say certain things, so I thought in that quick moment, trying to decide if I would scare this lady by telling her I had lost her Dad's connection and my last image of his was blue teeth or should I say it, so I did...I said, "This may sound crazy and probably means nothing, but I try to mention every detail, so I'm going to ask, Do you know why he would be showing me bright blue teeth"? She began sobbing hysterically, she knew immediately what that meant and had apparently been waiting and hoping to hear that all along....even after all the names, birthdates, other specific validation, personality descriptions,etc that had come through, this tiny image of blue teeth meant the most to her and she explained "As he was dying, I told him, it's ok to go...go be with mom, show her those gorgeous blue teeth of yours, we'll be fine here, he laughed and squeezed my hand and then he passed" this was a conversation they had when he took his last breath in the hospital, his teeth had been blue because of something like juice he had been drinking, but that comment was VERY significant to her. These are the type things that can not be found online, they can not be researched, they are not in an obituary or on a Facebook page (not that any genuine medium has time to do all that research anyway because we do not). You can't cold read (which is a skeptic's way of saying we read body language). There is no logical or scientific way to explain that comment away as being anything other than a beautiful message of proof and validation from a loving father to his daughter. This is why people drive hours, wait months, then write reviews after, this is why people do readings over and over again. I'm not saying this process of connecting with passed loved ones is for everyone and I'm not saying every single reading has that specific of a validation message, but what I am saying is that I try as hard as I can to get that for every single person I do a reading with. From my perspective, you can't put a time limit on it, so I dont. I wish I could get everyone those kind of details. I often do, but sometimes I just don't...sometimes I don't get as much validation as I would like, but that same person does a reading again, and the next time, I do. I am just the middle man, I repeat, but I will promise to do my very best to repeat every detail and to be open, honest, and to put emphasis on the validating, because I know, the messages matter, but so does the validation. I will come to your area to do a one on one reading with you alone and/or your family or for a group, I also do phone readings. To schedule a reading, or to get information on having me come to your area, please call 717-816-1258. Please share this blog, spread the word so that more people understand how this process works. I can't speak for other mediums and I do believe there are only a handful of "genuine" mediums in this world, but if you have a good one, they will get some validation for you.
Joan Rivers…. a comic genius. Many consider her a comic icon. Sadly, in the past few days, the news of her tragic trip to the hospital has social media swirling with information. As of the writing of this blog, she hasn’t passed…yet. There are rumors circulating that she has, but those are just rumors, sadly, I have to stress, from a psychic medium perspective, I feel strongly those rumors will soon become a reality. As I’m writing this blog she is in the hospital on life support, her daughter Melissa being faced with one of the most difficult decisions (probably THE most difficult decision) that any human being will ever have to face….removing someone from life support.
I do so many readings with people who have lived for years with guilt after making this decision, regardless of how long they waited or what their final decision was. In light of what is going on with Ms. Rivers, I thought I would share my thoughts on this from a psychic perspective.
I believe (based on what spirit has told me during readings) there is no wrong answer here. The loved ones often feel one way during their life on this topic and will express it. For example, in the case of Joan Rivers, I psychically feel that she does not want to continue on life support and has probably in the past expressed to her family to discontinue life support in this type of a situation; however, most of the time, after a spirit has passed, they come through during a reading and tell me that as they were on the life support, they were already visiting Heaven…they were already beginning their process of visiting the other side, going through the process of crossing over & while sometimes were aware of what was going on around them in the hospital room, they were already finding their peace. They really wouldn’t have minded if their family needed more time with them and didn’t follow through with their wishes to immediately remove the life support, BUT, they also tell me that if they had previous told their family they wanted to remain on life support and once they were in that situation, the family had chosen to remove the life support, they were not upset at all and were still at peace & happy that the family didn’t suffer by having the burden of watching them in that state (on life support at the hospital). What I’m saying is basically this, once your loved one is passed, most of the time, they are not upset either way in regards to the life support debate regardless of what their wishes were in life & regardless if those wishes had been fulfilled, their only concern is that the family did what was best for themselves at the time so that they would find their peace the easiest and fastest way.
I’m not saying that I expect this will make that decision or the process for Joan, Melissa, or any family that has dealt or will deal with this situation any easier….this is never an easy choice, but I’m explaining that from what I have learned during my readings, your loved ones are at peace and not upset with the decision at all, regardless of the outcome.
In closing, I do feel that Joan Rivers will be leaving our world in the VERY near future and it’s a sad day for us, we have certainly been blessed to have had her here for so long making us smile and laugh, which is what she loved to do, but she will be going to Heaven & I’m sure, she’ll be telling her jokes there too! All my love & best wishes to her family!
If I told you, you could call up Heaven & set up a time to meet with your loved one, would you? Would you drive for hours to meet with them? Would you spend the time and money just for that last chance to say Goodbye, or to say Hello?, to ask them questions about their life in spirit or questions about their final moments? Well you can…at least that’s what thousands of people have told me after doing a reading. For them, it was like meeting with their passed loved one and many continue to do it on a regular basis after that first time because it’s like visiting with their loved one in Heaven for a while on earth. I do both phone and in person readings, I’m often asked which is better…..
I always prefer face to face readings over phone readings, not because phone readings aren't good, they are, but because I often get clearer more direct information when I'm sitting with someone than just speaking to them over the phone. I never know the client, not even their first name most of the time, they are scheduled by a host, usually their friend or family member. I arrive & go in a different room from the group, one at a time, people enter the room, sit down with me, not saying a word, I just begin speaking...having no idea who they are or a single thing about their life. The client often describes it as actually sitting down talking to their loved one and that's exactly what it often feels like. Here are just a few examples of what loved ones have said or talked about during recent readings that I did face to face in person with a complete stranger, or was it?!:
A lady who passed in her 20s came through, the first thing she said to my female client was that she had passed quickly, her body had been missing, and that foul play was involved, she then apologized that she had put herself in the situation she had, that ultimately caused her death, she described the 3 people who were involved, told me how and why she had been murdered, gave me the name of someone involved, even his birthday. She then gave me a secret password "bologna", I call it a password because it was the one word that convinced the client beyond a doubt that she wasn't talking to me, but was in fact talking to her sister, who had passed almost 15 years earlier....after the reading she explained to me that she and her sister would spend many nights late after coming home from a night of bar hopping, eating bologna sandwiches and just talking and having fun. The sister could hardly believe it when the word bologna came from my mouth, but it did...along with many other private details. After the reading she hugged me, telling me that she felt like she was visiting with her sister, and hugging her goodbye, until next time, which for her is about twice a year.
Another lady I recently sat with had someone come through and tell me she was older, like a Grandma and showed me that she passed from a health issue with the lungs, the client immediately was certain she knew who this was, as I continued, she quickly learned it was not at all who she thought it was or expected it to be, she had done sessions with me in the past but I of course didn't remember her...she assumed the same spirit would come through, boy was she wrong...I began to tell her exactly what I was being told "Tell her she's not one for jewelry but she wears the ring", I repeated this and the client looked at me like I was crazy, she said that just isn't true, I have no idea what she's talking about, she has come through before but never mentioned a ring and I don't have any jewelry from anyone”, I continued to argue with her for a good five minutes repeating it over and over "you are not one for jewelry but you wear the ring" and the client continued telling me she wouldn't say that and I was wrong, then it hit her, you could see her face, as if looking at me were looking at a ghost, she began to cry and said "Oh my God, that's not who I thought it was, that's my Grandma...she has never come through and I completely forgot, I am wearing her wedding ring, I never take it off and have worn it for so long, I completely forgot it was even her ring". She also felt as if she had just spent time talking to her Grandma. I didn't give up, I continued repeating because it wasn't me...it was her Grandma, speaking through me, strong personality and arguing, not willing to give up.
These are just two examples of why you are not setting an appointment with me, but instead with your passed loved ones. This is also why I strongly feel if you can do a reading in person, you really should. If you have read my details on Facebook of what comes through during phone sessions, you will see that phone sessions can be just as touching and amazing as well, but nothing beats the in person reading!
How do you get an in person reading? While phone readings can be scheduled on my website using the schedule now button, in person sessions are much harder to get…I do not do them in my home office. There are only 3 ways to schedule an in person reading:
1-Host me! It’s really pretty easy. You call/text John, my husband (he handles all the scheduling) 717-816-1258, you tell him your city and state. He will give you the fee info. The fee is always based on your distance from me and the hotel expenses in your area. I will come to you. There is NO LONGER a minimum number of people required, he just gives you a total fee that you pay to have me come. This fee is for 1-10 people, if you have more than 10 people, he will explain how that works…you also have the choice if each person wants a private reading or all together- fee is the same regardless.
2-Have a host invite you. Often times a friend or family member will be having me come, just ask them to include you.
3-Catch me if you can! I travel just a few times per year doing shows or private readings at venues, usually hotels, I will always announce on my Facebook and website www.shellyfrey.com . These are only done a few times and almost always in the northeast part of the country, space is extremely limited so be sure to catch me when you can.
Of course, not everyone can do one of these three things to see me in person, for those that can't, please schedule your appointment on my website for a phone reading, phone sessions are still a wonderful appointment with your passed loved one.
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Just click the REVIEWS tab on my website to read honest reviews from people just like you, most of whom were complete strangers that had never met me before their readings.
I get so many questions about what my life is like or how things 'work" for me and in the afterlife. I sometimes forget that while these things are just a given for me & a part of my life as common knowledge, there are many beliefs out there in regards to me & what I do that people just don't automatically know the truth....how would you? It's not something everyone would just know....even other mediums experience things differently, so here's the biggest myths and misconceptions I hear or have been asked about....please feel free to share your comments, ideas, and questions too!
1. Shelly is so lucky, she sees and knows everything about everyone.
This is probably one of the biggest myths there is. I don't always just know where your husband is when he says he is going golfing, or where your missing necklace is or who your real dad is. I don't know what your deepest secrets and thoughts are and I certainly can't tell you what lotto numbers to play. While I can "see" more into your life than the average person & all of the things I just mentioned sometimes do just come to me, It's usually much harder than that...I usually have to go through the same relaxation and connecting technique that I do when I'm doing a session, I have to call in my angels and spirit guides, your angels and spirit guides, I have to really focus my mind on the question at hand & rarely get a direct answer...for example...I don't see your husband in a bar with his friends having a Coors Light & discussing his lie to you about being at the golf course, I may see that he isn't where he says, I may get a name...possibly his middle name or a name of someone he is sitting near or the bartender, I might hear a song that is playing in the background, but chances are, you or I will not even understand what those things mean. I rarely can just get asked a question and immediately know the answer.
2. I wish I could have the easy job Shelly does, she must make a ton of money working from home just a few hours a week or better yet, she does sessions for 40 hours a week.....if you do the math of the session fees, she's raking in the money.
This could NOT be further from the truth. There is a lot more than people realize that goes into this job. It is not a career that anyone (after really understanding what goes into it) would choose to do like going to college for a degree as a medium....My husband and I sacrifice a lot, we work long hours, are constantly away from our kids, meet strangers at hotels without really knowing if we are safe, deal with some very mentally unstable individuals-people who threaten everything from harming us to fake blackmail to suicide and everything in between. We get calls 24/7, some emergencies....many hang ups in the middle of family game night with our kids or just a relaxing dinner. I can't go out in public without either being recognized or having spirits come through to the point where I can't even finish what I'm trying to do.....and after all of this, the income is the same and some months less, than we made at our previous jobs....I am not doing sessions full time, that would be much too draining and just isn't possible. In addition to all of this, we have lost friends and family who simply do not believe in what we do-thinking it's evil or non-existant...No, this is certainly not a career that most people would choose...it chose me!
3. If I can do a reading with Shelly, she will solve all my problems, make my life worth living, make it all better, etc...
There are many people who have readings/sessions with me in which they find ultimate peace after years of heartache or get all their questions answered before even asking, but this is not always the case, this is the 1st step in a long journey, much like counseling, many people need numerous readings to connect and reconnect with their loved ones to find that peace or those answers.
4. Oh, I forgot to ask XYZ during my session, I think I'll ask Shelly or I just realized what she meant during my reading when my loved one said this, I need to ask her if XYZ is what he meant or I don't need a full session, I just have one quick question for her that I need answered.
I get a ton of emails and messages from people asking me for things outside of a session or after a session. I simply can't just answer these questions, as described in the previous question #1 above, there is an entire process to this and I do sessions before and after yours, so I don't remember most of your session once I have dialed the next number. Also, when I'm done with sessions or have a day off, I am thinking about my life, my family, etc... not connecting with the other dimensions. If I kept myself connected 24/7 in case anything comes through or to answer your "1 question" I would be so stressed and drained, I wouldn't be able to use my gift at all.
5. Shelly must read people's minds just for the fun of it or to see how they really feel.
I have a full busy life, connecting with the other side is mentally, emotionally, & physically draining, and so is focusing on other people's thoughts and minds. I have no desire to know what others are thinking, I see and hear enough without that...just because I can sometimes do it, doesn't mean I want to! I don’t see people in the mall or on the street and try to "see" what their life is like, I have no desire to know and when it comes to me automatically, I try to block it or leave their vicinity, I just don't need that drama.
6. This must be like a drug for Shelly, she probably has so much energy.
This is completely the opposite of the truth. I am more tired than ever and have difficulty ever relaxing...I don't remember the last time I slept for more than an hour or two at a time. If you look at my photos before I admitted to the world I could do this and started doing it professionally, then look at my photos now, I have aged well beyond the time I should have.
7. Shelly is so blessed, she has a perfect life.
TRUST ME...none of us have a perfect life. I am very blessed with many things (this gift, my family, my husband and children, health, etc...) but we all have our drama, no ones life is perfect, including mine. I am a normal human being and have the normal faults within myself and the same family, financial, minor health, etc.. issues that you have.
8.Shelly isn't really communicating and she's scamming people, no one can talk to the dead.
There are thousands of reviews and testimonials on my website, my Facebook page, and individual unbiased 3rd party websites saying otherwise. Sure, I know that there may be some people who will believe anything and often I get the same "Cold Reader" accusations as all other mediums & psychics, but the truth is, most of these reviews are from sane, smart, skeptical people who first came to me with no expectations, telling me nothing, not even their name, and I was able to give them very private, specific details about their life that can't be explained...how would I know that stuff? They aren't reaching to make it fit, it's not vague or general, it's specific and detailed.....It's coming from somewhere and I believe I am communicating not only with the dead, but have the ability to read minds, to psychically know things, and to communicate with other dimensions (spirit guides and angels). Just because you can't hear or see it doesn't mean I'm just really good at reading body language or guessing, the things I have been able to tell are not even close to things that would be guessed. I never pressure anyone to do a reading and I have nothing to hide, I'm an open book and very public with my life...I have no private life and trust me, this is way more work and stress than anyone would ever do to scam people out of a few hundred bucks....many times, I leave a group making next to nothing because of the time out of office I'm not doing phone sessions, the hotel and gas expense, etc..... why would I do that all for a lie? It makes no sense, because it isn't true. I get to help people...as long as I have people that are truly helped and find peace, I will continue doing this...yes, it is my job and it pays the bills, but I could do many other jobs that pay the bills for a lot less stress.
9. Shelly is communicating with other dimensions, but it's pure evil, those spirits are at rest and she's disturbing them.
This is ridiculous but you wouldn't believe how many people believe in afterlife, believe that I am talking to the dead, but also believe it's evil and I'm going to the place they call Hell for it.....this is simply so much of a misconception all I can say is, you can't believe every detail you read, even if it is in a book called the Bible. We are living in Hell already in this world, this is a gift from God and I was given it so I could use it.
10. Shelly is so strong, she never cries during sessions and seems to be always happy.
While I love my life and this gift, I am not as strong as you think. I cry watching Bambi....I am very emotionally fragile, if you deal with heartache, sorrow, and death and see the ugliest parts of the world all day everyday, it definitely shatters your strength. As a psychic medium, I struggle everyday with separating other people's problems and sorrows and living my life....do you know how hard it is to watch your teenager leave in the car, only hours after doing a reading for someone who's teen son with the same name or birthday, passed in a car accident?......I do have strength of faith and family, but I'm also very fragile.
11. Shelly charges too much or should work for free.
Would you go in to work tomorrow for free? Why should I? If you are a nurse, do you take double shifts on the weekend at a hospital that is hours away, leaving your children for days on end for free or less pay because you are helping people? of course not, in a perfect world, we would all be able to do this, but I have to pay my bills as you do, so just as you wouldn’t work for free, nor do. The time I put into this and the expenses of hotels and travel, etc... are definitely too much of an expense and to much pressure on my family to do this for free or for any less than I charge now. You are literally making an appointment with your passed loved one, it amazes me the number of people who question the price of that!
12. Shelly should time her sessions, I want to know in advance exactly how long sessions are.
This is one of the craziest things I have ever heard. This is not a Science, I am not God...just as I can't see and know everything about you or your life, I can't possible know what will happen during a session or how long it will last. All are different and I never know what I'm getting. I refuse to just tell your relatives to leave because a timer goes off-that's cruel.
I hope this clears up some of the misconceptions and myths I have heard about me and my life as a psychic medium. I love what I do, and it's definitely worth the sacrifice and difficulties I deal with to be able to help others find peace. I honestly don't know why there are so many people criticizing those of us that do this, if people find peace and are happy, why do they care? No one is forcing them to do a reading or connect with their own passed loved ones....I think, at least for some, it's because they don't have their own happiness, so they don't want others to be happy either, it's a sad but true fact. At this point in my life, there's nothing else I would rather do, but trust me, I didn't "choose" this....it chose me.
Completely Skeptic, Pleasantly Shocked- While A Lady Awaiting A Response From Long Island Medium, She Gets Shelly Frey Instead!
I try to regularly write a quick recap of my readings every week for those interested in things that come through during sessions, I don't always have the time right away, but I do it as often as I can...but this one is different, this is a story that I needed to tell:
I had a lady on the phone who was extremely skeptical, she watched Long Island Medium & believed that some people have the ability to communicate with the dead, but she really wanted a session with Theresa Caputo because she trusted her from seeing her on tv....like so many others, she tried for an appointment, but never got a reply, so she called my husband (she found his number on my website, she had stumbled upon while researching mediums), as she was dialing, she was thinking of me more as a back up plan...hoping something would come through during a reading, but preparing herself that it probably wouldn't (she already had in her mind that I was probably just another medium doing "cold reading" or pulling information out of my clients)....she was pleasantly surprised & really more in shock when she had her session....I called her on her scheduled day, I think she was somewhere in the middle on the list (John just gives me a list of names and phone numbers and I call in the order they are on the list), I quickly explained to her how normally when I do a session, spirit gets more talkative and stronger a few minutes in & in the beginning it's normally more about validating who they are. She was very polite and extremely quiet, not doing much talking other than the occasional "ok". Most clients at least tell me yes they know what the spirit is talking about or in some way confirm that they at least think they know who it is, but she didn't...making it much more difficult because for all I knew, this was a relative of extended family that had passed 70 years ago.....but I just kept repeating....the spirit came through instantly telling me his name, birthday, and date of passing (this is extremely rare for me, I typically get one of those pieces of info, but all 3...I thought to myself that something must be wrong with this as it's never that spot with SO much info right away), she just kept saying ok, ok & nothing else... He explained that he was her boyfriend when they were younger, over 20 years ago...he then proceeded to show me images of his passing, a very strange passing because he had actually went on a beach trip with friends, disappeared, and never been found (spirit doesn't explain it that way specifically, first he showed me the beach, then a question mark, then said something about a missing person)-as I always attempt to, I put the puzzle together and said to her "I think he's saying he was missing at some point, possibly from a beach"....she again simply said "ok"....He then showed me that he had gotten in a truck with someone who offered to give him a ride back to his hotel because he couldn't find his friends, he had been drinking and so had the driver, the truck swerved from the road and went into the water, but it didn't look like the ocean, some lake or river, he had hit his head and ultimately drowned.....after all of this info, we are not about 40 minutes to an hour into her session & I really have no idea if she has any clue who this guy is, she then starts hysterically crying, I feel for her and hope she isn't crying of disappointment that a family member didn't come through, he then tells me to tell her, he wasn't upset with her and he should have listened, he is so sorry for the things he had said and he is with her and loves her, he approves of her husband and is glad she is happy and hopes she can move forward with her life, he even told me that he comes through to her by communicating with her youngest child (I found out later this is true and the child is less than a year old), he went on saying some other messages about his family and such...she then starts talking to me, it's a completely different person than I started the call with, her voice suddenly sounded relaxed and personable, she went from being polite to being friendly. She explained to me that no one knew she was doing this session, she didn't want to hurt her husband by letting him know how often she thinks of the male energy coming through... her childhood sweetheart had passed away on a Spring trip to the beach, they had been together into their late teens. She knew that this couldn't be researched ahead of time because he wasn't related to her and it was a LONG time ago, so if he came through, she knew it would be real. They had argued about him going without her before he left... His body was found, but he had been considered a missing person until the body was identified...she also explained that no one ever understood why he was in that truck or who the driver was/how they were connected...now she knew. She had lived for over 20 years with the guilt of the argument they had and worried he was angry with her. This has haunted her on a regular basis since it happened....she had thought her child had been looking and laughing at something she couldn't see herself, but didn't know what....we finished her session and then she explained to me how she had stumbled upon my website, read the testimonials and even watched videos, but had honestly thought it was all fake, just a scam or something.....she apologized for doubting and thanked me, saying that for the first time in over 20 years, she feels free....like a new life is beginning (she had gotten married, had children, and taken care of a sick Grandfather, but through it all she felt lost, her mind always going back, living with the guilt was killing her)....she said she is now able to live again, and has found her peace. I am keeping her name, as well as the spirit's name out of this for confidentiality as she requested, but felt her story needed to be told. I am hop this helps others to move forward in their lives, knowing that in the end, you don't have to live with the guilt, you can let go and be happy again. Enjoy what you have in life and don't let your peace be determined by your past.
For those of you that don't know, I do Psychic Medium sessions over the phone in addition to in office & travel/groups. I know there are a lot of questions about how that works so I'm writing this blog to explain a bit about phone sessions. Phone sessions are great option for you if you want a session quickly, but live far away, have working hours, etc... I'm typically able to squeeze people in for phone sessions within a month, often times even within a week or two. Phone Sessions are very accurate-meaning the spirits of loved ones that come through to me during a session are just as good at validating who they are & communicating with you as they would be if I were to be with you in person. This is because your loved ones in spirit are around you constantly. I communicate with them through my mind using energy. It's not an easy thing to explain, but my connection works via the phone, in person, & even via email or Facebook....a person's loved ones can communicate with me anywhere, anytime. If you read the testimonials on my website www.shellyfrey.com, many are from people who did phone sessions...I did not know them before the call at all & they did not know me. You do not have to provide me any information at all. I simply call you, collect your credit card info, then begin to explain some things to expect and tell you what I "see"...I use the term see because it's the best way to describe it, but please remember, I'm seeing it all in my head & using my mind to communicate. When your loved ones begin to fade (they are still around you, but I lose my connection), I then keep your spirit guides & angels with us, this is to do more of a psychic reading-I use my own psychic abilities as well as ask them questions regarding your past, present, & future. You, as the caller, are free to ask questions at any time, but do not have to ask anything if you do not want to. Basically, there is NO difference between a phone session & an in person session except the fee is lower for a phone session & I can usually get you in sooner. I have had many people that were reluctant to do the phone session because they thought it wouldn't be as good of a session, but after the phone session they wrote me wonderful testimonials on how great the session was. I hope this eases your mind if you are one of the many people who want a session but live far away or can't come to my office or want to avoid the long wait for a session.
Could This Message Be For YOU? Psychic Medium has a personal message from a departed loved one for someone.
PLEASE SHARE THIS BLOG- ON FACEBOOK, ON TWITTER, SEND EMAILS, TELL YOUR FRIENDS…IT IS
VERY IMPORTANT THAT I FIND THE PERSON THIS SPIRIT WAS TRYING TO REACH!!!
This blog will be unlike any other that I have written. I am not sure how or why this happened, but that isn’t unusual because I’m not really sure how this communication between worlds exists for me at all…it just does. I have a message for someone from the other side, it’s from a loved one & I am trying to find out who I need to give this message to. This isn’t unique in that I often get messages for strangers when I’m out & about (at a hotel, restaurant, mall, etc.) and I usually will approach strangers with those messages. It is unique in that I have no idea who the message is for. I usually know exactly who Spirit is trying to reach. This one is very different though. Here's how it happened & the info about it.
I had done 20 sessions in two days, I was exhausted physically & emotionally, so I decided to take an afternoon rest. I lay down on the couch to watch QVC (love my Q & often fall asleep to it- it’s very relaxing to me). I wasn’t quite in a full sleep yet, at least I didn’t think I was. You know that state of consciousness where you aren’t really asleep, but not really awake-just drifting. I then had an uninvited guest come through from the other side. He was very clear, but I was 1\2 asleep, so when he faded out, I immediately grabbed a pen & paper and wrote down the notes. My memory is a little blurry on the specifics, so I can’t say for certain that I wasn’t dreaming, but either way, the message needs to be given. It was a very real and valid communication with the other side.
Here are the notes from the loved one, if you think this may be
for you or someone you know, please email me firstname.lastname@example.org in the subject line, write “SCOOTER”.
*If you have never done a session, these points may seem generalized & vague, but if you put them all together, someone out there will know exactly who this is because every single point will all add up & make sense, please don't "reach" to make them connect, if this is for you, you will know it...also, a regular session would have more specific info (names, details, I can even ask questions), because this was either a dream or 1/2 asleep state, the info came through much differently than an actual session would, so it isn't as clear.
-He kept saying Scoot or Scooter (probably a nickname for him or his loved one still living, but I’m not certain)
-He was trying to hug me while rocking, much like a mother does with a newborn & wanted me to hug the person this
message is for while rocking (maybe he did this with them in life?)
-He kept pacing back & forth as if he were nervous or anxious
-He was singing a song, I can’t recall exactly what it was, but it was like changing the words to a popular song to fit
the person you are singing to (example- if you were to sing a song from the radio, but switch the lyrics to make sense for the person you were singing to), this is likely something he did in life or someone did for him.
-He mentioned something about Prom (I don’t know if he went to prom with someone just before he passed or missed prom because of his passing, or he is saying that his message is for someone that went to prom on the day he passed or right after?)
-I feel strongly that he was mentioning the word father or grandfather (he may be one, although that doesn’t necessarily mean he was one, he could be trying to reach his own)
-I feel as though he had a really hard time in life & in coping with life (may have committed suicide, been a drinker or
used drugs, etc…)
* I WILL SHARE THE EXACT PRIVATE MESSAGE (NOT ON THIS BLOG) AS SOON AS I FIND THE PERSON…IS IT YOU?
PLEASE EMAIL ME IF IT IS, WRITE “SCOOTER” IN THE SUBJECT LINE. I NEED TO GET HIS MESSAGE TO HIS LOVED
*PLEASE PASS THIS INFO ALONG, SHARE EVERYWHERE & ANYWHERE WITH ANYONE & EVERYONE, I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THE MESSAGE IS FOR, BUT WILL GIVE THE MESSAGE TO THE PERSON WHEN/IF I FIND THEM.
As a fellow psychic medium, I still frequently get questions about Theresa Caputo, The Long Island Medium. Here is the most up to date information I have on Theresa Caputo. Please keep in mind, this is just what I found by doing my own research and I can not guarantee that this information is all complete and accurate. I will answer the questions about her to the best of my knowledge.
1-What are Theresa's fees?
I have still not been able to find her exact fees on a website that is directly affiliated with her or her show; however, in my research I have talked to a few people that have had sessions with her. I think it's important to interject that it is my
understanding that she is no longer actively scheduling appointments at all. I have heard her mention this many times in interviews. According to the people I have spoken with and the research I have done, the fees vary widely, therefore I cannot speculate what her actual fees are for those that were already scheduled.
2-How do I get an appointment with her?
I had heard her say in an interview once that her waitlist was 3 years or more, but that was a long time ago. It is my understanding that she is no longer scheduling new appointments at all. I did see numerous unanswered requests on her facebook page as well.
3- Are you as accurate as Theresa?
I do feel my sessions are similar in manner, accuracy, and style to Theresa's, I cannot honestly say I am or am not as good or better than her. I think we are equally blessed with this gift.
4-Do you think she takes advantage of people by not doing this for free?
Not at all...this is her profession, she too has a gift/ability just like an athlete or an artist has a gift. She deserves to be paid just like anyone else in any profession. Also, I know from my own experience that much more time and effort goes into this profession than just the sessions themselves.
5-Do all mediums know each other?
No. I honestly feel we are all very similar in some ways, but different in others...just like any other profession, some of us know each other, some do not.
6-Do you know Theresa personally?
I'm in no way connected to Theresa on a business or personal level. I have much admiration for her and appreciate her giving me encouragement through her show to continue what I am doing. I have also noticed there are MANY similarities between us, but also some differences.
I hope this blog gives you some updated answers about Theresa Caputo. I am in no way claiming to be an expert on "All Things Theresa"...just trying to answer some commonly asked questions to the best of my ability. Remember, just because I'm psychic, doesn't mean I know everything!
Just a quick note..thank you all for your blog comments. Many of these are asking for appointments....the fastest and best way to get a session is by calling my office directly at 717-328-2408. You will speak with my husband John who does all of my scheduling. If you get voicemail, leave a message, typically, these calls are returned faster than emails. Also, if you have emailed or called in the past and haven't yet gotten a response, please feel free to call again. I will try to answer the blog posts when I can, but right now, I do not have a lot of
Psychic Medium Answers-Life After Death
I get a ton of questions about life after death. I have selected a few of the most popular for this week's blog. I hope you learn a little something or find the answers interesting. Please continue emailing your questions & I'll keep answering them.
1- Can you communicate with Pets/Animals that have departed the physical world?
Absolutely....Souls of any being who lived on earth continue their life in Spirit after they leave the physical world.
2- Can you communicate with someone who never spoke English in life?
Yes, I can usually tell they didn't speak English because they "talk" much faster to me, but I hear them in English.
3- Why would someone come through for me in a session that I didn't really like or didn't know as opposed to someone I was very close to & miss dearly?
I honestly can't answer this question in the way I would like because I don't really understand it myself. I know that when someone passes, they leave all their negativity towards other behind. Often times, they come through during a session because they have a need to give a message or make peace with someone in the physical world. Also, if it's someone you barely knew, it could be that they are so excited/eager to reach out to the physical world, they have the strongest energy at the time. It is also my understanding that spirits do other things, so they may be busy at the time of the session. In the end, it doesn't mean your loved ones are not with you in spirit or do not want to communicate. It's important to remember, this isn't a Science, but I believe it really depends on the ability of the spirit and I to connect at any given time.
4- Why do they give you clues, signs, feelings, symbols, and impressions at first, then get more direct and speak in regular communication as the session moves forward?
This doesn't always happen. Sometimes, they give me their name and start direct clear and accurate communication almost immediately. Other times, it gets much clearer as the session develops. It is my belief that when I first connect, the connection may not always be strong enough at first, then we kind of "get into the groove" as the session develops. Also, spirits often wait to give their message until after they know that the person I'm sitting with and I are confident, without a doubt in our mind, of who they are. Their message would mean much less if we weren't completely positive it's our loved one.
5- Are all sessions equally accurate and clear?
No....again, I do not understand why myself, but some sessions are crystal clear giving me specific details the entire time...other ones, I have to continually ask questions and really push for the details. I believe it has something to do with the connection at the time and the energy of the person I'm sitting with.
6- Why does my loved one talk about insignificant or odd things sometimes instead of giving you information like my nickname or a special memory that I would immediately connect with?
Spirits say and talk about what they want to. I have no control over it at all. I wish they would say exactly what they need to say to convince the person I'm sitting with quickly, and sometimes it works just that way, but not always and I have no idea why. I do believe that often times the things they discuss & the validation info they give are things they feel are not too general but also not something I could possibly know.
7- Why do they give you initials and not names?
I often times do get exact names; however, when I do get initials, it's important to explain that sometimes they give me the letter itself, but most often, they are saying a name, but I can only understand pieces of it, like the first letter or the ending.
8- Do all spirits talk about different things?
Yes and No. They all talk about different things, but there are certain universal signs and symbols for me that I see frequently. Also, their messages are sometimes similar. No two sessions are ever identical- most all talk about completely different things. It's important for me to explain here that I'm just the messenger, so while I try to help the person I'm sitting with by explaining what that symbol typically means for me, it doesn't always mean the same thing. While I'm very eager to help by giving suggestions for a lot of what they show me & say, it's really important that the person doing the session knows what the Spirit is saying and understands.
9- Why do they connect & what do they want to say?
In my opinion, spirits who come through have a message to deliver to someone in the physical world....they do that through me. These messages are typically one of love, hope, peace, understanding, and unsettled or unresolved situations. It's not about me proving myself , it's truly about people knowing that their loved ones are still with them in Spirit & hopefully offering peace to not only those in the physical world, but often to the spirits as well.
10- You are a psychic too, does that mean you can look at people and know everything about them?
Not at all. The biggest misconception about Psychics and Mediums is that we should know everything about everyone. It just doesn't work this way. Remember, we are not the ones "pulling the strings" & we only know what we are "shown" and are supposed to know.