Tue, 21 May 2013 11:20:30 -0500WeeblyMon, 25 Mar 2013 19:19:19 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2013/03/phone-sessions-if-you-could-hear-what-i-seeyou-can.htmlFor those of you that don't know, I do Psychic Medium sessions over the phone in addition to in office & travel/groups.  I know there are a lot of questions about how that works so I'm writing this blog to explain a bit about phone sessions.  Phone sessions are great option for you if you want a session quickly, but live far away, have working hours, etc...  I'm typically able to squeeze people in for phone sessions within a month, often times even within a week or two.  Phone Sessions are very accurate-meaning the spirits of loved ones that come through to me during a session are just as good at validating who they are & communicating with you as they would be if I were to be with you in person.  This is because your loved ones in spirit are around you constantly.  I communicate with them through my mind using energy.  It's not an easy thing to explain, but my connection works via the phone, in person, & even via email or Facebook....a person's loved ones can communicate with me anywhere, anytime.  If you read the testimonials on my website www.shellyfrey.com, many are from people who did phone sessions...I did not know them before the call at all & they did not know me.  You do not have to provide me any information at all.  I simply call you, collect your credit card info, then begin to explain some things to expect and tell you what I "see"...I use the term see because it's the best way to describe it, but please remember, I'm seeing it all in my head & using my mind to communicate.  When your loved ones begin to fade (they are still around you, but I lose my connection), I then keep your spirit guides & angels with us, this is to do more of a psychic reading-I use my own psychic abilities as well as ask them questions regarding your past, present, & future.  You, as the caller, are free to ask questions at any time, but do not have to ask anything if you do not want to.  Basically, there is NO difference between a phone session & an in person session except the fee is lower for a phone session & I can usually get you in sooner.  I have had many people that were reluctant to do the phone session because they thought it wouldn't be as good of a session, but after the phone session they wrote me wonderful testimonials on how great the session was.  I hope this eases your mind if you are one of the many people who want a session but live far away or can't come to my office or want to avoid the long wait for a session.  ]]>Mon, 18 Feb 2013 12:47:09 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2013/02/-could-this-message-be-for-you-psychic-medium-has-a-personal-message-from-a-departed-loved-one-for-someone.htmlPLEASE SHARE THIS BLOG- ON FACEBOOK, ON TWITTER, SEND EMAILS, TELL YOUR FRIENDS…IT IS
VERY IMPORTANT THAT I FIND THE PERSON THIS SPIRIT WAS TRYING TO REACH!!!


This blog will be unlike any other that I  have written. I am not sure how or  why this happened, but that isn’t unusual because I’m not really sure how this communication between worlds exists for me at all…it just does.   I have a message for someone from the other side, it’s from a loved one & I am trying to find out who I need to give this message to.  This isn’t unique in that I often get messages for strangers when I’m out  & about (at a hotel, restaurant, mall, etc.) and I usually will approach strangers with those messages.  It is unique in that I have no idea who the message is for.  I usually know exactly who Spirit is trying to reach.  This one is very different though. Here's how it happened & the info about it. 

 I had done 20 sessions in two days, I was exhausted physically & emotionally, so I decided to take an afternoon rest. I lay down on the couch to watch QVC (love my Q & often fall asleep to it- it’s very relaxing to me). I wasn’t quite in a full sleep yet, at least I didn’t think I was.  You know that state of consciousness where you aren’t really asleep, but not really awake-just drifting.  I then had an uninvited guest come through from the other side.  He was very clear, but I was 1\2 asleep, so when he faded out, I immediately grabbed a pen & paper and wrote down the notes.  My memory is a  little blurry on the specifics, so I can’t say for certain that I wasn’t  dreaming, but either way, the message needs to be given. It was a very real and valid communication with the other side.  

Here are the notes from the loved one, if you think this may be
for you or someone you know, please email me shelly.frey@comcast.net   in the subject line, write “SCOOTER”.  
 

*If you have never done a session, these points may seem generalized & vague, but if you put them all together, someone out there will know exactly who this is because every single point will all add up & make sense, please don't "reach" to make them connect, if this is for you, you will know it...also, a regular session would have more specific info (names, details, I can even ask questions), because this was either a dream or 1/2 asleep state, the info came through much differently than an actual session would, so it isn't as clear.

 -Male energy 

-He kept saying Scoot or Scooter (probably a nickname for him or his loved one still living, but I’m not certain)

 -He was trying to hug me while rocking, much like a mother does with a newborn & wanted me to hug the person this
message is for while rocking (maybe he did this with them in  life?)

 -He kept pacing back & forth as if he were nervous or anxious

 -He was singing a song, I can’t recall exactly what it was, but it was like changing the words to a popular song to fit
the person you are singing to (example- if you were to sing a song from the radio, but switch the lyrics to make sense for the person you were singing to), this is likely something he did in life or someone did for him.

 -He mentioned something about Prom (I don’t know if he went to prom with someone just before he passed or missed prom because of his passing, or he is saying that his message is for someone that went to prom on the day he passed or right after?)

 -I feel strongly that he was mentioning the word father or grandfather (he may be one, although that doesn’t necessarily mean he was one, he could be trying to reach his own)

 -I feel as though he had a really hard time in life & in coping with life (may have committed suicide, been a drinker or
used drugs, etc…)

 * I WILL SHARE THE EXACT PRIVATE MESSAGE (NOT ON  THIS BLOG) AS SOON AS I FIND THE PERSON…IS IT YOU? 
PLEASE EMAIL ME IF IT IS, WRITE “SCOOTER” IN THE SUBJECT LINE.  I NEED TO GET HIS MESSAGE TO HIS LOVED
ONE!

*PLEASE PASS THIS INFO ALONG, SHARE EVERYWHERE & ANYWHERE WITH ANYONE & EVERYONE, I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THE MESSAGE IS FOR, BUT WILL GIVE THE MESSAGE TO THE PERSON WHEN/IF I FIND  THEM.


 ]]>Sat, 09 Feb 2013 21:57:42 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2013/02/long-island-medium-theresa-caputo-appointment-fees-waitlist-contact.htmlAs a fellow psychic medium, I still frequently get questions about Theresa Caputo, The Long Island Medium.  Here is the most up to date information I have on Theresa Caputo. Please keep in mind, this is just what I found by doing my own research and I can not guarantee that this information is all complete and accurate.  I will answer the questions about her to the best of my knowledge.
1-What are Theresa's fees? 
I have still not been able to find her exact fees on a website that is directly affiliated with her or her show; however, in my research I have talked to a few people that have had sessions with her.  I think it's important to interject that it is my 
understanding that she is no longer actively scheduling appointments at all. I have heard her mention this many times in interviews. According to the people I have spoken with and the research I have done, the fees vary widely, therefore I cannot speculate what her actual fees are for those that were already scheduled.
2-How do I get an appointment with her?  
I had heard her say in an interview once that her waitlist was 3 years or more, but that was a long time ago.  It is my understanding that she is no longer scheduling new appointments at all.   I did see numerous unanswered requests on her facebook page as well.  
3- Are you as accurate as Theresa? 
I do feel my sessions are similar in manner, accuracy, and style to Theresa's, I cannot honestly say I am or am not as good or better than her.  I think we are equally blessed with this gift. 
4-Do you think she takes advantage of people by not doing this for free? 
Not at all...this is her profession,  she too has a gift/ability just like an athlete or an artist has a gift.  She deserves to be paid just like anyone else in any profession. Also, I know from my own experience that much more time and effort goes into this profession than just the sessions themselves.
5-Do all mediums know each other? 
No.  I honestly feel we are  all very similar in some ways, but different in others...just like any other profession, some of us know each other, some do not.
6-Do you know Theresa personally?
 I'm in  no way connected to Theresa on a business or personal level.  I have much admiration for her and appreciate her giving me encouragement through her show to continue what I am doing.  I have also noticed there are MANY similarities between us, but also some differences.  
I hope this blog gives you some updated answers about Theresa Caputo.  I am in no way claiming to be an expert on "All Things Theresa"...just trying to answer some commonly asked questions to the best of my ability.  Remember, just because I'm psychic, doesn't mean I know everything!
 
]]>Sat, 15 Dec 2012 14:48:38 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2012/12/psychic-mediumexperience-tragic-school-shooting-in-conneticut.htmlI was sitting on my screened porch yesterday just after my CNN app on my cell phone sent me a notification of the news about the Sandy Hook Elementary School Shooting in Newtown,
Connecticut.  I was speaking with my husband about it, although much of those 20-30 minutes we both just sat there in silence and disbelief.  I was trying to process what had just happened in my mind.  I began asking myself the question that every other parent (and non parent) in this country had been asking- Why?  What happened to cause this horrific event? How could so many children be gone in the blink of an eye?  While my mind knows that these questions are never really answered, my heart just can't help but beg for some type of sense to be made of it.  I am a psychic medium. I spend most of my life connecting with those who have passed on from
this world.  I deal with loss and tragedy everyday for a living, but there are times, and this is one of them, that I cannot even begin to "deal with" a loss.  In this case, the amount of pure pain & complete emptiness associated with losing the most innocent & precious of souls as a child is next to impossible to even put into words.  I am a very spiritual person.  I know firsthand that there is in fact a God who is in control of this world and while I do not go to church or practice any specific religion, I talk to this God often. I began asking him why, how this could have happened, imagining these families being told that they lost their loved ones in an instant and in such a horrific manner. 
I then heard an answer-I'm not claiming in any way that God spoke to me yesterday, nor that I have any special connection with God that others do not....I do not know where this answer came from for sure- It may have been my spirit guides, my angels, my loved ones who have passed, or even my own mind and psychic ability trying to tell me something, but I heard one
word..."Scott".  At the time, I had no idea how a simple name could have anything to do with the questions I had been asking in prayer.  I told my husband..."I'm not sure where the connection is or even if the gunman has been identified" (thinking maybe I was picking up on the gunman's name)  I later learned that the name of the gunman was not Scott, but I kept getting one
name loud and clear "Scott" over and over again, I'm hearing the name "Scott".
Late last night after crying most of the day, I began to feel physically ill, so I headed to bed and cried myself to sleep thinking of the parents who had gone through so much pain that day, as well as the family members of the adults that were lost, the responders, the media, and everyone else feeling such deep pain.  This morning, as I was reading through my Facebook news feed on my cell phone, I read a post out loud to my husband (which I have included below in its entirety) and the phone literally fell out of my hand when he stopped me while I was reading it to him.  He had shock in his voice when he shouted "SCOTT...THAT'S IT....SCOTT! " 
it hit me like a slap in the face. This is the answer, this is the "Scott" that I was being told about
  yesterday & was the answer to this horrific dilemma we face and these all too often acts of violence.  Below is the post.  I realize not everyone will believe me and I'm not trying to seem as though I have any answers or anything prophetic has occurred, but I do believe that someone was giving me an answer that was right in front of my nose all along:


COLUMBINE STUDENT’S FATHER 12 YEARS LATER !!
 
Guess our national leaders didn’t expect this. On Thursday, Darrell Scott, the father of Rachel Scott, a victim of the Columbine High School shootings in Littleton, Colorado, was invited to address the House Judiciary Committee’s subcommittee. What he said to our national leaders during this special session of Congress was painfully truthful. They were not prepared for what he was to say, nor was it received well. It needs to be heard by every parent, every teacher, every politician, every sociologist, every psychologist, and every so-called expert!  These courageous words spoken by Darrell Scott are powerful, penetrating, and deeply personal. There is no doubt that God sent this man as a voice crying in the wilderness.. The following is a portion of the transcript:

“Since the dawn of creation there has been both good & evil in the hearts of men and women. We all contain the seeds of kindness or the seeds of violence. The death of my wonderful daughter, Rachel Joy Scott, and the deaths of that heroic teacher, and the other eleven children who died must not be in vain. Their blood cries out for answers."

"The first recorded act of violence was when Cain slew his brother Abel out in the field. The villain was not the club he used.. Neither was it the NCA, the National Club Association. The true killer was Cain, and the reason for the murder could only be found in Cain’s heart."
 
“In the days that followed the Columbine tragedy, I was amazed at how quickly fingers began to be pointed at groups such as the NRA. I am not a member of the NRA. I am not a hunter. I do not even own a gun. I am not here to represent or defend the NRA - because I don’t believe that they are responsible for my daughter’s death. Therefore I do not believe that they need to be
defended. If I believed they had anything to do with Rachel’s murder I would be their strongest opponent."
 
"I am here today to declare that Columbine was not just a tragedy—it was a spiritual event that should be forcing us to look at where the real blame lies! Much of the blame lies here in this room. Much of the blame lies behind the pointing fingers of the accusers themselves. I wrote a poem just four nights ago that expresses my feelings best."
 
            Your laws ignore our deepest needs, Your words are empty air. 
            You’ve stripped away our heritage, You’ve outlawed simple prayer. 
            Now gunshots fill our classrooms, And precious children die. 
            You seek for answers everywhere, And ask the question “Why?” 
            You regulate restrictive laws, Through legislative creed. 
            And yet you fail to understand, That God is what we need!
 
“Men and women are three-part beings. We all consist of body, mind, and spirit. When we refuse to acknowledge a third part of our make-up, we create a void that allows evil, prejudice, and hatred to rush in and wreak havoc. Spiritual presences were present within our educational systems for most of our nation’s history. Many of our major colleges began as theological
seminaries. This is a historical fact. What has happened to us as a nation? We have refused to honor God, and in so doing, we open the doors to hatred and violence. And when something as terrible as Columbine’s tragedy occurs—politicians immediately look for a scapegoat such as the NRA. They immediately seek to pass more restrictive laws that contribute to erode away our personal and private liberties. We do not need more restrictive laws. Eric and Dylan would not have been stopped by metal detectors. No amount of gun laws can stop someone who spends months planning this type of massacre. The real villain lies within our own hearts."

“As my son Craig lay under that table in the school library and saw his two friends murdered before his very eyes, he did not hesitate to pray in school. I defy any law or politician to deny him that right! I challenge every young person in America , and around the world, to realize that on April 20, 1999, at Columbine High School prayer was brought back to our schools. Do not let the many prayers offered by those students be in vain. Dare to move into the new millennium with a sacred disregard for legislation that violates your God-given right to communicate with Him. To those of you who would point your finger at the NRA — I give to you a sincere challenge.. Dare to examine your own heart before casting the first stone! My daughter’s death will not be in vain!
The young people of this country will not allow that to happen!” - Darrell Scott 

Do what the media did not - - let the nation hear this man’s speech. 
God  Bless!


I now understand the message that I was receiving loud & clear- the name Scott referred to this man, who had a message to tell us all. Our children should be permitted to pray to their God in school and anywhere else they wish- regardless of who their God is.  Did these acts of violence occur before taking God out of our public lives & schools?..... maybe, but have these acts increased since taking God out? - The answer to me is obviously...yes.

I am saddened and sickened by the horrific events that unfolded Friday. My heart breaks everyday for those who are lost & heartbroken after losing their loved ones, but the amount of pure pain & complete emptiness associated with losing the most innocent& precious of souls as a child is next to impossible to even put into words....My thoughts, love, and prayers go out to the families of all the victims, witnesses, responders, reporters, & law enforcement affected by Friday's senseless tragic act of hatred and rage.


 ]]>Sat, 03 Nov 2012 12:15:36 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2012/11/fastest-best-way-to-get-appointment.htmlJust a quick note..thank you all for your blog comments.  Many of these are asking for appointments....the fastest and best way to get a session is by calling my office directly at 717-328-2408.  You will speak with my husband John who does all of my scheduling.  If you get voicemail, leave a message, typically, these calls are returned faster than emails.  Also, if you have emailed or called in the past and haven't yet gotten a response, please feel free to call again.  I will try to answer the blog posts when I can, but right now, I do not have a lot of ]]>Mon, 01 Oct 2012 09:49:52 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2012/10/psychic-medium-answers-life-after-death.html Psychic Medium Answers-Life After Death

I get a ton of questions about life after death.  I have selected a few of the most popular for this week's blog.  I hope you learn a little something or find the answers interesting.  Please continue emailing your questions & I'll keep answering them.

1- Can you communicate with Pets/Animals that have departed the physical world?

               Absolutely....Souls of any being who lived on earth continue their life in Spirit after they leave the physical world.   

2- Can you communicate with someone who never spoke English in life?

               Yes, I can usually tell they didn't speak English because they "talk" much faster to me, but I hear them in English.

3- Why would someone come through for me in a session that I didn't really like or didn't know as opposed to someone I was very close to & miss dearly?

               I honestly can't answer this question in the way I would like because I don't really understand it myself.  I know that when someone passes, they leave all their negativity towards other behind.  Often times, they come through during a session because they have a need to give a message or make peace with someone in the physical world.  Also, if it's someone you barely knew, it could be that they are so excited/eager to reach out to the physical world, they have the strongest energy at the time.  It is also my understanding that spirits do other things, so they may be busy at the time of the session.  In the end, it doesn't mean your loved ones are not with you in spirit or do not want to communicate. It's important to remember, this isn't a Science, but I believe it really depends on the ability of the spirit and I to connect at any given time. 

4- Why do they give you clues, signs, feelings, symbols, and impressions at first, then get more direct and speak in regular communication as the session moves forward?

               This doesn't always happen.  Sometimes, they give me their name and start direct clear and accurate communication almost immediately.  Other times, it gets much clearer as the session develops.  It is my belief that when I first connect, the connection may not always be strong enough at first, then we kind of "get into the groove" as the session develops.   Also, spirits often wait to give their message until after they know that the person I'm sitting with and I are confident, without a doubt in our mind, of who they are.  Their message would mean much less if we weren't completely positive it's our loved one.

5- Are all sessions equally accurate and clear?

               No....again, I do not understand why myself, but some sessions are crystal clear giving me specific details the entire time...other ones, I have to continually ask questions and really push for the details.  I believe it has something to do with the connection at the time and the energy of the person I'm sitting with.

6- Why does my loved one talk about insignificant or odd things sometimes instead of giving you information like my nickname or a special memory that I would immediately connect with?

Spirits say and talk about what they want to.  I have no control over it at all.  I wish they would say exactly what they need to say to convince the person I'm sitting with quickly, and sometimes it works just that way, but not always and I have no idea why.  I do believe that often times the things they discuss & the validation info they give are things they feel are not too general but also not something I could possibly know.

7- Why do they give you initials and not names?

               I often times do get exact names; however, when I do get initials, it's important to explain that sometimes they give me the letter itself, but most often, they are saying a name, but I can only understand pieces of it, like the first letter or the ending.

8- Do all spirits talk about different things?

               Yes and No.  They all talk about different things, but there are certain universal signs and symbols for me that I see frequently.  Also, their messages are sometimes similar.  No two sessions are ever identical- most all talk about completely different things.    It's important for me to explain here that I'm just the messenger, so while I try to help the person I'm sitting with by explaining what that symbol typically means for me, it doesn't always mean the same thing.  While I'm very eager to help by giving suggestions for a lot of what they show me & say, it's really important that the person doing the session knows what the Spirit is saying and understands.

9- Why do they connect & what do they want to say?

               In my opinion, spirits who come through have a message to deliver to someone in the physical world....they do that through me.  These messages are typically one of love, hope, peace, understanding, and unsettled or unresolved situations.  It's not about me proving myself , it's truly about people knowing that their loved ones are still with them in Spirit & hopefully offering peace to not only those in the physical world, but often to the spirits as well.

10- You are a psychic too, does that mean you can look at people and know everything about them?

               Not at all.  The biggest misconception about Psychics and Mediums is that we should know everything about everyone.  It just doesn't work this way.  Remember, we are not the ones "pulling the strings" & we only know what we are "shown" and are supposed to know.

]]>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 12:49:51 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2012/09/psychic-medium-what-are-the-fees-why-theresa-caputo-john-edward-james-van-praagh-sylvia-browne-char-margolis.htmlYou have all heard these names and probably some more.  I have written a blog on  this subject in the past, but I have much more insight now, along with more questions coming in, so I'm going to tackle an extremely confusing topic for  many, a very sensitive one for others.   What do mediums charge?  Why are the fees of various mediums so different?  What are your fees?

 I know this is a sensitive subject.  There are those that feel that mediums like myself have a gift from God, & should not charge.  My answer to that has always been the same...every profession in the world has a gift from God, they all charge (doctors, attorneys, counselors, painters, etc...). With that being said, I get a tremendous amount of questions about fees.  

All mediums charge what they feel is right for them.   There isn't a "standard" rate. The ones who do sell out events with thousands of people who have gained fame often charge very low ticket rates because they are seeing thousands of people at one event,  Others with that same notoriety may charge close to $1000 for a 30 minute session.  Some may have a TV show that they get paid well to do, those sessions that are recorded for TV may be very low or free because the medium is making their income by doing the show, not from the session itself.  Many have top selling books.  Some are just starting out.  There is no easy answer to this question.  Some mediums are not even taking new appointments because their income is derived  from the TV shows, lectures, books, etc....  I can tell you that my rates are currently $320 for a phone session, $400 for a session in my office, &  travel rates always depend on the area but because I only travel for groups of  10 or more, those rates sometimes end up being lower than a phone session.  I realize my fees aren't the lowest,  but they aren't the highest either.  My rates are determined by the demand, the amount of hours being put in, & the income my family needs to live, comparable to what it was at my previous job.  Not all mediums may determine their rates by the same things.  I have attempted to explain why the rates are so different, why some mediums charge much less and some much more, but the true thing to keep in mind is that it's up to each individual.   The fees shouldn't be the only determining factor.  Sometimes, you  really do get what you pay for (longer waiting lists or less detailed information).   

In closing, I feel that each person must feel comfortable with the medium they choose and their fees.  We all
have different budgets.  Do your homework, research the medium, be comfortable with them, determine what you can
afford, then select the best medium for you. 

]]>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 12:07:19 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2012/09/the-long-island-medium-premier-brings-more-questionsa-day-in-my-life.htmlAs the season premier of Long Island Medium (Theresa Caputo) is
quickly approaching & the network is airing the promos, it brings with it
more questions.  I love this show.  I have a huge amount of
respect for Theresa and appreciate her showing the world what it is that we do,
one episode at a time; however, it also brings along with it more questions about
what exactly I do & how I do it.  I can't answer for any other medium, but
I thought I'd write a blog to answer the single most frequently asked question I
get. This question comes from my clients, people interviewing me, friends,
family, & strangers I meet on a daily basis. 


What's it like being a
Psychic Medium?, Describe a day in your Life


This is such a generalized question, but i get this questions numerous times a day.
I'm going to try to do the impossible...explain what it's like to have this ability.  It's really a combination of feelings.  First & foremost, I am SO very appreciative.  I thank God every day, but more importantly, I am thankful to the thousands of people who have contacted me, most are total strangers, and who are willing to not only embrace my gift, but who often have to wait weeks or even months to speak to me but  still allow me to share such a personal, private, and often life changing experience with them....for all of this I am grateful. 
     There are so many feelings that go along with this "job"-satisfaction,  sadness (my heart goes out to all of these people, some in quite a bit of pain over their loss), love, joy....but what most people don't realize is how difficult of a life it truly can be when you have this ability.  It's not just a full time job, it becomes part of your life.  I typically begin my day at 4am, getting myself mentally awake and ready  for not only my clients in this world, but my clients in the spirit world as well.  I do sessions & often  work 12-14 hour days.  Then, I try to quickly catch up to all those people on Facebook & Twitter who are trying to reach out to me.  I never want anyone to feel ignored.  I then try to squeeze in the typical American household time (homework with the kids, TV, dinner, etc).  It can be physically  & emotionally draining to communicate with those who have passed even for a little while, doing it all day every day is exhausting. I then get up and do it all again. 
     When I'm out on "free time", I'm still working...often approaching strangers to give them messages or just working at blocking out all the spirits trying to communicate.  I travel frequently, sometimes it seems I'm in the car, more than I'm in my bed.  This does take a toll on my family as well.  I have 3 children.  Between traveling and sessions, I really don't get as much quality time with them as I once did.  My husband and I both quit our other full time jobs to do this full time, (and then some).  I'm so glad I have John, without him, no one would get scheduled...I'm doing sessions....I  can't be in 2 places at once.  There are often days when we barely get to have a conversation. 
     I'm not writing this blog to seem ungrateful or to complain in any way, believe me, I appreciate this ability & all of those people who support me and share their lives with me every day and I NEVER take it lightly; but sometimes when people say "It must be so fun doing what you do", I reply, "yes, it's amazing and I LOVE it!" , but being completely honest here, there is a down side and it isn't as easy as everyone thinks.  I can also honestly say that I wouldn't be happy going back to a "normal" job. John, Cody, & I all work way more hours than we ever thought we would, but there are so many other rewards... The smiles on so many faces, the confusion when I tell them something I couldn't possibly know, the peace that some people get after years of sadness,  the tears of finally letting things go.....these things make it all worth it. This is who I am...I am a Psychic Medium
& I wouldn't have it any other way!

]]>Wed, 18 Apr 2012 01:39:02 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2012/04/theresa-caputo-long-island-medium-appointment-contact-wait-fees.html I am writing this blog because I get asked questions about Theresa Caputo every day while doing sessions with my current clients.  Here are the questions I get most often & my answers.  1-Do you know what Theresa charges?  I have not been able to find her fees on a website that is directly affiliated with her or her show; however, in my research I have talked to a few people that have had sessions with her.  According to them, it seems the price for a 30 minute session is around $400 in her local area-more if she travels and more for private groups.  I cannot say for certain this is accurate, as I only know what I'm being told by others.  2-How do I get an appointment with her?  To the best of my knowledge, the only way to get an appointment at this time is to email her directly.  I did see numerous requests on the facebook page & follow up comments that she had not been responding- in all fairness to her, I must interject, it's virtually impossible to respond to every request or comment/question I receive, she's on TV...I think it's obvious she couldn't possibly schedule a session with everyone who contacts her.  She has mentioned in several interviews that it's now a 2year+ wait for a session.  3- Are you as good as Theresa?  I do feel my sessions are similar in manner, accuracy, and style to Theresa's, I cannot honestly say I am or am not as good or better than her.  I think we are equally blessed with this gift.  4-Do you think she takes advantage of people by charging so much or by not doing this for free?  Not at all...this is her profession, she has a gift & like me, I'm sure she only wants to help people, this is NOT as easy as people might think.  She deserves to be paid just like anyone else in any profession.  Please read my previous blog regarding psychics medium & fees for more info.  5-Do you feel you are in competition with Theresa?  Absolutely not!  I honestly feel we are very similar, but not competitors...there is plenty of need for our services.  I often do sessions with clients while they wait on the 2+year waiting list or because they didn't get a response as of yet when they contacted her.  I realize she has much more exposure & a hit T.V. show and I'm just as big of a fan as the rest!    Please keep in mind, I'm in no way connected to Theresa on a business or personal level.  I have much admiration for her and feel that she has done an amazing thing for people like me who have this ability.  Every week she shows the world what it is like to do what I do.  As my family & I sit and watch her show, which we record/DVR, we are constantly pausing to reflect on how much this family is like ours.  It may sound strange to hear this from someone like me (I do see dead people after all) but it completely shocks me every time I watch it!  I can't believe how similar we are.  It makes me think there must be a class on the other side that we took before we were born or something.  I mean, here's this lady that I have never met who talks like me (a little bolder than me), says word for word what I say, not only during her sessions, but to her kids & husband, has similar interest, facial expressions, etc....  I can't even really explain how similar our lives are in one blog, but it validated for me that this was DEFINITELY something that was planned out before we ever came to this world.  As I continue to watch her during her sessions & in her everyday life, I realize, just how much of my life was planned before I was ever born, as that is the only explanation I can come up with as to how 2 strangers can have so much in common.  I will continue to support her and watch her show & I encourage everyone else to do the same!

]]>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 01:07:44 GMThttp://www.shellyfrey.com/1/post/2012/03/psychic-vision-thought-trayvon-martin.htmlThe murder of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin, a Florida high school student who was shot and killed by George Zimmerman, a self-appointed neighborhood watch captain, has left our country confused, hurt, angry, & divided.  So what do I, as a psychic medium, think about this case?  I felt compelled to write this blog because I am OUTRAGED!  I know better than most people, that we are born with a plan.  A plan of our life, that includes a plan of when we are to die.  I do NOT feel it was Trayvon's time to die. 
A neighborhood watch is supposed to be a plan of protection, not one of racism or ignorance.  I feel that in this particular incident, this was NOT a case of self defense, rather a case of a person on a power trip who in an instance took the life of another human being.  I do not feel the police handled this case correctly from the beginning.  Mr. Zimmerman claimed self defense so they just took his word for it and did nothing?  This is not the way our plan was written.  This was a man who jumped to conclusions and acted out of fear and prejudice.  Did he assume that because Trayvon was African American that he must be "up to no good"?  Absolutely he did, but we all have heard what happens when we assume!  I have expressed in this blog what I feel actually happened.  Unfortunately, just me psychically knowing what happened can not bring this young man back to his family & friends.  It's a sad situation.  Everything in this world is planned by a power much higher than us, we are simply pawns & just like the pawns in a board game, the color of the pawn isn't supposed to have any impact on the outcome of the game, unfortunately, the plan is often skewed by  ignorance. The purpose is one of peace and acceptance.  Racism has never & will never be part of the agenda.  That is something humans created & is just one of many things that  that goes against the principles of life.  Those who act out of hatred are going against the plan. The only relief I can offer is that a power much higher than us will see that justice is served, even if it isn't in this world, it will be in the next!
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